Sunday, October 17, 2010

Lead the Way....

Should the man or woman head the relationship? (Think deep before you answer this one)

4 comments:

GG said...

Tough question. I think the answer is very dependent on the unique dynamics of each individual relationships. What works for one couple doesn't necessarily work for another. I will say this though, if the man and woman are not in agreement whether spoken or silent agreement, on this issue, there will be problems! I think every woman should cultivate the ability to lead the relationship while allowing the man TO THINK that he's leading it :)

Janelle said...

That is what a man told me when he was asked this question. Well everything except allowing the man to think he's leading it. LOL

Michael Kolawole said...

I would agree with GG, it does depend on the dynamics of the relationship. With that, I do feel they're roles in relationships and each person should play their part. Men and women are physically and emotionally different. At the end the day we are a team, but we dont need a captain or leader.

Janelle said...

Michael, thanks for chiming in with a man's point of view. Being on the same page and team in a relationship is essential, the moment one person starts to make decisions for the team without the other, the team starts to fall apart. Communication is difficult when both people are not open for discussion. Like you said each person has a part and a role to play and like GG said those roles are best filled with agreements.

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